Love a man that makes me laugh!
DeborahN
Palm Springs, California | Mujer Buscando Hombre
Información Básica
Puedo hablar
Inglés
Me describiría a mi mismo como
I am a romantic and I'm very passionate about a great many things. I want the fairy tale as they say, but I'm a realist too and I know that the fairy tale isn't possible, but I believe you can get darn close! It takes passion, work and commitment just like all worthwhile endeavors. I love to explore new places. learn new things, I love a challenge and good conversation... talk to me! Laughing, smiling, and fishing are my favorite pastimes. I surround myself with happy people. In a relationship, it's the little things... like loving glances, notes for no reason other than to show we care, times where we just stop and find ourselves in a passionate moment, hand holding, and random "I love you" texts.
I am honest to a fault and tend to be direct in most situations. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I care deeply about my loved ones.
Honesty, character, integrity, passion, romance, and a great sense of humor are the things that I look for as well as someone that doesn't have to be entertained 24/7 and can enjoy a night in as easily as out. Someone who isn't a slave to the TV, (DVR's are great). Someone who is monogamous, period! I tend to get along well with younger men or men that are young at heart. I'm not knitting yet! I still love to live life and I'm just not ready to sit and watch it pass me by. I'm an easy going person who is very easy to talk to. People tend to open up to me. If you believe you could be the other half of this coin, I would love to hear from you.
More about me?
Taking a deep breath here...
You know when you go to a car lot to buy something and you get the pushy salesman with the over the top attitude and he just pushes and acts all too familiar with you and he keeps the pressure on until you just can't deal with it and you either walk off or you give in and buy something that you weren't even sure if you wanted simply because you felt pressured? Well... I'm the type of girl who won't give in and buy it, but rather will move on quietly, looking for the salesman who is no-pressure, easy-going, sweet, funny, gives me time, allows for space, treats me with respect, and when I'm ready he is there for me. He's the one that I will return the favor for and will rave about him to his boss and will return out of loyalty.
I guess what I am saying is, after some time here, I have had heavy hits where someone is forcing a situation and I'm looking for a "comfortable fit", no need to force or "will" something into existence... it will just happen!
I'm supportive, loving, loyal, and devoted and go above and beyond for those I care about. I dislike games and do not play them.
Friendship first... no starting in the middle, that doesn't work. I'm NOT here for a quick "hook-up" or cyber anything so if that is all you are interested in, do not waste your time or mine.
I've no intention of hurting anyone. I'm just not capable of it. People's hearts, hopes, and dreams are safe with me. I value trust and would do nothing to dash someone's trust in me. It's a precious thing. I am very intuitive and go with my "gut" feelings and if I sense something is off or disingenuous I will politely move on. I prefer to get to know people better by phone rather than messages here as a person's tone can give a single sentence a variety of meanings. Hearing the other person's voice is much better and you can learn so much more.
Sorry... I don't do yahoo.
Turn Ons: Kindness ~ Creativity ~ Conversation ~ Quick wit ~ Sarcastic Humor, (like Matthew Perry from Friends) ~
Dark hair and eyes ~ A big plus if you are Irish or Scottish!
Turn Offs: Rude and demanding people ~
Someone who is pushy ~ Whining ~ Jealousy
I am honest to a fault and tend to be direct in most situations. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I care deeply about my loved ones.
Honesty, character, integrity, passion, romance, and a great sense of humor are the things that I look for as well as someone that doesn't have to be entertained 24/7 and can enjoy a night in as easily as out. Someone who isn't a slave to the TV, (DVR's are great). Someone who is monogamous, period! I tend to get along well with younger men or men that are young at heart. I'm not knitting yet! I still love to live life and I'm just not ready to sit and watch it pass me by. I'm an easy going person who is very easy to talk to. People tend to open up to me. If you believe you could be the other half of this coin, I would love to hear from you.
More about me?
Taking a deep breath here...
You know when you go to a car lot to buy something and you get the pushy salesman with the over the top attitude and he just pushes and acts all too familiar with you and he keeps the pressure on until you just can't deal with it and you either walk off or you give in and buy something that you weren't even sure if you wanted simply because you felt pressured? Well... I'm the type of girl who won't give in and buy it, but rather will move on quietly, looking for the salesman who is no-pressure, easy-going, sweet, funny, gives me time, allows for space, treats me with respect, and when I'm ready he is there for me. He's the one that I will return the favor for and will rave about him to his boss and will return out of loyalty.
I guess what I am saying is, after some time here, I have had heavy hits where someone is forcing a situation and I'm looking for a "comfortable fit", no need to force or "will" something into existence... it will just happen!
I'm supportive, loving, loyal, and devoted and go above and beyond for those I care about. I dislike games and do not play them.
Friendship first... no starting in the middle, that doesn't work. I'm NOT here for a quick "hook-up" or cyber anything so if that is all you are interested in, do not waste your time or mine.
I've no intention of hurting anyone. I'm just not capable of it. People's hearts, hopes, and dreams are safe with me. I value trust and would do nothing to dash someone's trust in me. It's a precious thing. I am very intuitive and go with my "gut" feelings and if I sense something is off or disingenuous I will politely move on. I prefer to get to know people better by phone rather than messages here as a person's tone can give a single sentence a variety of meanings. Hearing the other person's voice is much better and you can learn so much more.
Sorry... I don't do yahoo.
Turn Ons: Kindness ~ Creativity ~ Conversation ~ Quick wit ~ Sarcastic Humor, (like Matthew Perry from Friends) ~
Dark hair and eyes ~ A big plus if you are Irish or Scottish!
Turn Offs: Rude and demanding people ~
Someone who is pushy ~ Whining ~ Jealousy
Signo
Virgo
Apariencia y Situación
Mi tipo de cuerpo es
Grande y Hermoso/a
Mi altura es
5' 4 (1.63 m)
Mis ojos son
Azules
Mi raza es
Caucásico
Mi situación marital es
Divorciado
Tengo hijos
Si - A veces en casa
Quiero tener hijos
No
Mi Mejor característica es
Ojos
Piercings, tatuajes…
Piercing… pero sólo en las orejas
Mi pelo es
Rubio Oscuro
Tengo uno o más de estos
Gato
Me iría a vivir a otro lugar
No
Estatus
Mi nivel de estudios / educación es
Algo de Universidad
Mi situación laboral actual es
Tiempo Completo
Mi especialidad es
Hospitalidad / Viajes
Mi trabajo es como
Assistant Front Office Manager
Mi salario anual es de
$45,000USD a $59,999USD
Vivo en
Con compañero/s de piso
En casa
Todo tranquilo
Soy Fumador
No
Soy Bebedor
Si - Socialmente
Personalidad
En el instituto, era
Del Tipo Callado
Socialmente, me describiría como
Cómico, Amistoso, Observador, Extrovertido/a, Reservados, Tímido/a
Mis aficiones e intereses son
Artes y Manualidades, Ir de camping, Cocinar, Bailar, Cenar, Familia, Pesca / Caza, Internet, Apuestas, Aprender, Películas, Música, Leer, Religión / Espiritualidad, Teatro, Viajar, Voluntariado
Mi idea de un rato estupendo es
Salir con amigos, Ir al Casino, Ir a un Concierto, Ir a un Museo, Leer un Libro, Relajarse, Quedarme en casa, Películas, Probar cosas nuevas, Televisión
Mi primera cita ideal sería
Hmmm... not a "dream" date, but an ideal first date is lunch at a nice outdoor spot preferably by the beach. Someplace quiet enough to talk but interesting too. A walk along the beach to talk and get to know each other is great. The beach is so relaxing.
Siempre he querido probar
Writing a book, acting, directing, to learn to play piano, archery, voice-over work, parasailing, horseback riding.
Mis amigos me describen como
Amistoso, Lo que todo el mundo quiere ser, Genial, Bobo
Puntos de Vista
Mi religión es
Espiritual pero no religioso
Voy a la iglesia
Nunca
Mi meta en la vida
To become a successful entrepreneur and leave something of value for my daughter. To travel back to Ireland and see Scotland as well and perhaps live in Ireland someday. To share a happy and wonderful life with the person that "gets" me.
Mi sentido del humor es
Irónico/a, Inteligente, Seco / Sarcástico, Amistoso, Bobo, Oscuro, Obsceno
Gustos
En la TV, siempre veo
Noticias, Dramas, Comedias de Situación, Películas, Reposiciones, No me gusta la TV
Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una
Acción, Ciencia Ficción, Comedia , Romance, Drama , Suspense
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Ambiente, Clásica, Gospel, Jazz, Pop, Reggae, Rap, Rock
Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es
Antiguedades, Autobiografías, Negocios, Fantasía, Ficción, Noticias, Filosofía, Política , Romance, Sobrenatural, Referencia, Ciencia Ficción
Mi idea de diversión es
Going fishing, going to the beach, taking in a play, going to Comic Con in San Diego, going to a TV show taping, being with friends or people I love.
Estoy buscando a
¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Coquetería, Buena Imagen, Grandes Habilidades, Humor, Inteligencia, Poder, Sensibilidad, Espontaneidad, Detallista, Ingenio
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Amigo/a , Cita, Íntimos, Comprometido