Love a man that makes me laugh!
DeborahN
Palm Springs, California | Frau Suche eine/n Mann
Basis Information
Ich kann sprechen
Englisch
Ich würde mich selbst beschreiben als
I am a romantic and I'm very passionate about a great many things. I want the fairy tale as they say, but I'm a realist too and I know that the fairy tale isn't possible, but I believe you can get darn close! It takes passion, work and commitment just like all worthwhile endeavors. I love to explore new places. learn new things, I love a challenge and good conversation... talk to me! Laughing, smiling, and fishing are my favorite pastimes. I surround myself with happy people. In a relationship, it's the little things... like loving glances, notes for no reason other than to show we care, times where we just stop and find ourselves in a passionate moment, hand holding, and random "I love you" texts.
I am honest to a fault and tend to be direct in most situations. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I care deeply about my loved ones.
Honesty, character, integrity, passion, romance, and a great sense of humor are the things that I look for as well as someone that doesn't have to be entertained 24/7 and can enjoy a night in as easily as out. Someone who isn't a slave to the TV, (DVR's are great). Someone who is monogamous, period! I tend to get along well with younger men or men that are young at heart. I'm not knitting yet! I still love to live life and I'm just not ready to sit and watch it pass me by. I'm an easy going person who is very easy to talk to. People tend to open up to me. If you believe you could be the other half of this coin, I would love to hear from you.
More about me?
Taking a deep breath here...
You know when you go to a car lot to buy something and you get the pushy salesman with the over the top attitude and he just pushes and acts all too familiar with you and he keeps the pressure on until you just can't deal with it and you either walk off or you give in and buy something that you weren't even sure if you wanted simply because you felt pressured? Well... I'm the type of girl who won't give in and buy it, but rather will move on quietly, looking for the salesman who is no-pressure, easy-going, sweet, funny, gives me time, allows for space, treats me with respect, and when I'm ready he is there for me. He's the one that I will return the favor for and will rave about him to his boss and will return out of loyalty.
I guess what I am saying is, after some time here, I have had heavy hits where someone is forcing a situation and I'm looking for a "comfortable fit", no need to force or "will" something into existence... it will just happen!
I'm supportive, loving, loyal, and devoted and go above and beyond for those I care about. I dislike games and do not play them.
Friendship first... no starting in the middle, that doesn't work. I'm NOT here for a quick "hook-up" or cyber anything so if that is all you are interested in, do not waste your time or mine.
I've no intention of hurting anyone. I'm just not capable of it. People's hearts, hopes, and dreams are safe with me. I value trust and would do nothing to dash someone's trust in me. It's a precious thing. I am very intuitive and go with my "gut" feelings and if I sense something is off or disingenuous I will politely move on. I prefer to get to know people better by phone rather than messages here as a person's tone can give a single sentence a variety of meanings. Hearing the other person's voice is much better and you can learn so much more.
Sorry... I don't do yahoo.
Turn Ons: Kindness ~ Creativity ~ Conversation ~ Quick wit ~ Sarcastic Humor, (like Matthew Perry from Friends) ~
Dark hair and eyes ~ A big plus if you are Irish or Scottish!
Turn Offs: Rude and demanding people ~
Someone who is pushy ~ Whining ~ Jealousy
I am honest to a fault and tend to be direct in most situations. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I care deeply about my loved ones.
Honesty, character, integrity, passion, romance, and a great sense of humor are the things that I look for as well as someone that doesn't have to be entertained 24/7 and can enjoy a night in as easily as out. Someone who isn't a slave to the TV, (DVR's are great). Someone who is monogamous, period! I tend to get along well with younger men or men that are young at heart. I'm not knitting yet! I still love to live life and I'm just not ready to sit and watch it pass me by. I'm an easy going person who is very easy to talk to. People tend to open up to me. If you believe you could be the other half of this coin, I would love to hear from you.
More about me?
Taking a deep breath here...
You know when you go to a car lot to buy something and you get the pushy salesman with the over the top attitude and he just pushes and acts all too familiar with you and he keeps the pressure on until you just can't deal with it and you either walk off or you give in and buy something that you weren't even sure if you wanted simply because you felt pressured? Well... I'm the type of girl who won't give in and buy it, but rather will move on quietly, looking for the salesman who is no-pressure, easy-going, sweet, funny, gives me time, allows for space, treats me with respect, and when I'm ready he is there for me. He's the one that I will return the favor for and will rave about him to his boss and will return out of loyalty.
I guess what I am saying is, after some time here, I have had heavy hits where someone is forcing a situation and I'm looking for a "comfortable fit", no need to force or "will" something into existence... it will just happen!
I'm supportive, loving, loyal, and devoted and go above and beyond for those I care about. I dislike games and do not play them.
Friendship first... no starting in the middle, that doesn't work. I'm NOT here for a quick "hook-up" or cyber anything so if that is all you are interested in, do not waste your time or mine.
I've no intention of hurting anyone. I'm just not capable of it. People's hearts, hopes, and dreams are safe with me. I value trust and would do nothing to dash someone's trust in me. It's a precious thing. I am very intuitive and go with my "gut" feelings and if I sense something is off or disingenuous I will politely move on. I prefer to get to know people better by phone rather than messages here as a person's tone can give a single sentence a variety of meanings. Hearing the other person's voice is much better and you can learn so much more.
Sorry... I don't do yahoo.
Turn Ons: Kindness ~ Creativity ~ Conversation ~ Quick wit ~ Sarcastic Humor, (like Matthew Perry from Friends) ~
Dark hair and eyes ~ A big plus if you are Irish or Scottish!
Turn Offs: Rude and demanding people ~
Someone who is pushy ~ Whining ~ Jealousy
Anmelden
Jungfrau
Erscheinung & Situation
Mein Körpertyp ist
Dick und Schön
Meine Größe ist
5' 4 (1.63 m)
Meine Augen sind
Blau
Meine Herkunft ist
Kaukasisch
Mein Familienstand ist
Geschieden
Ich habe Kinder
Ja - Manchmal zuhause
Ich möchte Kinder
Nein
Meine beste Eigenschaft ist
Augen
Körperkunst
Gepierct... Aber nur die Ohren
Mein Haar ist
Dunkelblond
Ich habe ein oder mehrere folgende Haustiere
Katze
Bereit umzuziehen
Nein
Status
Mein Ausbildungsgrad ist
Teilweise Hochschule
Mein derzeitiges Dienstverhältnis ist
Vollzeit
Meine Spezialität ist
Gastgewerbe / Tourismus
Mein Job-Titel ist
Assistant Front Office Manager
Ich verdiene im Jahr so viel
$45,000USD bis $59,999USD
Ich lebe
Mit Mitbewohner(n)
Zuhause
Alles ist ruhig
Ich bin Raucher
Nein
Ich trinke
Ja - Sozial
Persönlichkeit
In der Hauptschule war ich
Stille(r)
Mein soziales Verhalten ist
Comedian, Freundlich, Aufmerksam, Offen, Reserviert, Schüchtern
Meine Interessen und Hobbys sind
Kunst & Handwerk, Camping, Kochen, Tanzen, Essen gehen, Familie, Fischen / Jagen, Internet, Spielen, Lernen, Filme, Musik, Lesen, Religion/Spiritualität, Theater, Reisen, Ehrenamtliche Arbeit
Meine Vorstellung einer tollen Zeit ist
Mit Freunden ausgehen, Ins Casino gehen, In ein Konzert gehen, In ein Museum gehen, Ein Buch lesen, Entspannen, Daheim bleiben, Filme, Versuche neue Dinge, TV
Ein ideales erstes Date wäre
Hmmm... not a "dream" date, but an ideal first date is lunch at a nice outdoor spot preferably by the beach. Someplace quiet enough to talk but interesting too. A walk along the beach to talk and get to know each other is great. The beach is so relaxing.
Ich wollte immer schon versuchen
Writing a book, acting, directing, to learn to play piano, archery, voice-over work, parasailing, horseback riding.
Meine Freunde beschreiben mich als
Freundlich, Jemand, der sie sein wollen, Cool, Albern
Ansichten
Meine Religion ist
Spirituell aber nicht religiös
Ich besuche Gottesdienste
Nie
Mein Ziel im Leben ist
To become a successful entrepreneur and leave something of value for my daughter. To travel back to Ireland and see Scotland as well and perhaps live in Ireland someday. To share a happy and wonderful life with the person that "gets" me.
Mein Art Humor ist
Überspitzt homosexuell/Tuntig, Clever, Trocken / Sarkastisch, Freundlich, Albern, Mysteriös, Scharf
Geschmack
Im Fernsehen sehe ich mir Folgendes gerne an
Nachrichten, Dramen, Situations-Komödien, Filme, Wiederholungen, Ich habe keinen Fernseher
Wenn ich ins Kino gehe, sehe ich immer
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romanze, Drama, Thriller
Wenn ich mir Musik anhöre, höre ich immer
Stimmungsvoll, Klassik, Gospel, Jazz, Pop, Reggae, Rap, Rock
Wenn ich lese, lese ich immer
Historisch, Auto-Biografie, Geschäft, Fantasy, Fiction, Nachrichten, Philosophie, Politisch, Romanze, Superhelden, Bezug, Science Fiction
Meine Vorstellung von Spaß ist
Going fishing, going to the beach, taking in a play, going to Comic Con in San Diego, going to a TV show taping, being with friends or people I love.
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Was findest du attraktiv?
Flirtwillig, Gutes Aussehen, Tolle Fähigkeiten, Humor, Intelligenz, Kraft, Sensibilität, Spontanität, Nachdenklich, Esprit
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