soft woman for serious man

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

(*November update*) 54 yr young woman still seeking a meaningful relationship with a man who appreciates the simple things such as holding hands and closeness that doesn't necessarily have to end in the bedroom. I'd enjoy going out for a nice dinner and/or movie, or staying home and making a pot of soup together then after having our fill, cuddle up & watch some TV. Ideally, my companion would have a terrific sense of humor, be capable of intelligent conversation, confident enough to expose his sensitive & compassionate side, and have an interest in exploring the possibilities [with ME!]. If we discover a mutual desire to take things to a more intimate level, that would be great! I just want to be clear that I'm not interested in that revolving door feeling of meeting a guy then saying good-bye. We shouldn't treat people like we're trying on different pairs of shoes! Respect my desire to find that one best friend who'd like to share the sunset years together and we'll get along great!

Sign

Leo

My Body Type Is

Big And Beautiful

My Height Is

5' 10 (1.78 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Divorced

I Have Kids

Yes - At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

My Hair Is

Light Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Finance / Trading

My Job Title Is

Mortgage Servicing

I Make This Much In A Year

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

I Live

With Kid(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Friendly, Observant

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Arts & Crafts, Computers, Family, Fishing / Hunting, Internet, Games, Music, Playing Cards

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Going To A Concert, Relaxing, Staying At Home, Trying New Things

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Ughhh...first dates can be so awkward! That's probably why I actually prefer to get to know someone by talking online for some time first. Then if he's interested, invite him to come cheer on me & the team some Sunday. Less pressure for both of us when there's other people around. If that doesn't work for him, then perhaps meeting for coffee or some light snack would be nice. Wherever we can get a sense of how well we get might get along in person and whether there truly IS a connection.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

On Holidays

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Blues, Country, Jazz, Pop, Rock

When I Read, I Always Read

Fantasy, Fiction, Home & Garden, Humor, Instructional, Nature, Poetry, Reference, Science, Technical

My Idea Of Fun Is

I enjoy smaller groups of people rather than crowds. I don't drink at all [anymore] but am not uncomfortable if I'm in an atmosphere where people are drinking socially. I've participated in Sunday pool leagues for over 25 years, even competed in several semi-pro tournaments years ago...yes, I enjoy games that require strategy, so go ahead & challenge me! Other than pool, you won't usually find me in a bar. Basically, my life currently consists of work and home (not much fun...lol)

What Do You Find Attractive?

Good Looks, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

This is an area where some may take offense, but its important to realize people have preferences whether we like it or not...and I too find myself more attracted to certain characteristics in others. I try to surround myself with trustworthy people who live up to their word & don't expect more of me than they would of themselves. That's an even more important quality when it comes to the man I would consider becoming intimate with. Anyone can make a statement...few follow through with action! As far as physical attraction goes: I prefer a man my height or taller, good-looking to ruggedly handsome, hair, average build/a few extra pounds/muscular. Personality-wise: Confident, very attentive, a great sense of humor, thoughtful, compassionate, and able to forgive the occasional mistake. Someone who is VERY CLEVER & truly desires to enhance his world as he knows it.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed