Emotionally available & eager to please!
MirificMike
Sault Sainte Marie, Michigan | Homme Cherchant Femme
Informations de base
Prénom
Michael
Je sais parler
Anglais
Je me décrirais comme
Hello, my name is Mike, and I’m really bad at these introductions, but here goes!
Runner-up for “World’s Sexiest Geek.” Once rescued a box of kittens (and a fireman!) from a burning barn. 5-star chef. OK, I exaggerated a teensy bit. But I am cute, smart, will make you laugh, and can fix your computer; I rescue cats; and I’m a good cook. I’m also a musician, a writer, and a casual gamer. My personality type is Myers-Briggs INFP, and Enneagram 4 (“The Romantic”) – I’m empathetic, emotional, and artistic by nature. Insight and compassion are my highest values. My politics are progressive, and religion Buddhist and pagan.
Well, that’s the blurb version of me; I hope you find the idea of a man who’s witty and emotionally available attractive, and you’re interested enough to want to want to read on further, where I get less polished and more natural.
I’m looking for a friend and lover, somebody with whom we can both feel safe and sexy. Yes, I am emotional, and I make no apologies for that: things have to feel right first. I guess I wish I could be all studly and casual, but I’m all about the love. (But that doesn’t make me vanilla: with somebody I love, I’ll consider anything.) I want a fellow oddball; somebody quirky, neurodivergent. We’ll know each other. We’ll just click. But there has to be that bond of empathy, that caring.
I grew up in a suburb near the beaches. Went off to college, dropped out of grad school (English) to take care of my family, eventually got divorced. Met somebody, got married, but wife discovered she’s polyamorous and I'm trying to cope. I’m a romantic. To me, love should be like _The Princess Bride._ I need to have this with somebody.
With media, I favor humor, adult and other cartoons, fantasy, science fiction, documentary, drama, the occasional action movie, and somehow still get excited about superheroes for reasons that escape me. My sense of humor is pretty dark and geeky, and OMG will I love you if yours matches! I love Archer and Futurama and Criminal Minds and so much more… and I still love The Simpsons, even though it’s a different show than it used to be.
For fun, I like hanging out with friends, playing games like D&D or trivia. Or watching movies and TV together. Having discussions about anything under the sun. We’re geeks, so it’s going to be heavy on science fiction and fantasy and comedy, but hey, anything goes! I also read and play video games when solo. I wish I were more interested in sports, but I’m willing to be taught.
I’m a musician, playing guitar (that covers up about four or five red flags, eh?), bass, keys, some bad vocals, and a few band instruments. I also compose music. But as an introvert, I prefer to record than to play.
Runner-up for “World’s Sexiest Geek.” Once rescued a box of kittens (and a fireman!) from a burning barn. 5-star chef. OK, I exaggerated a teensy bit. But I am cute, smart, will make you laugh, and can fix your computer; I rescue cats; and I’m a good cook. I’m also a musician, a writer, and a casual gamer. My personality type is Myers-Briggs INFP, and Enneagram 4 (“The Romantic”) – I’m empathetic, emotional, and artistic by nature. Insight and compassion are my highest values. My politics are progressive, and religion Buddhist and pagan.
Well, that’s the blurb version of me; I hope you find the idea of a man who’s witty and emotionally available attractive, and you’re interested enough to want to want to read on further, where I get less polished and more natural.
I’m looking for a friend and lover, somebody with whom we can both feel safe and sexy. Yes, I am emotional, and I make no apologies for that: things have to feel right first. I guess I wish I could be all studly and casual, but I’m all about the love. (But that doesn’t make me vanilla: with somebody I love, I’ll consider anything.) I want a fellow oddball; somebody quirky, neurodivergent. We’ll know each other. We’ll just click. But there has to be that bond of empathy, that caring.
I grew up in a suburb near the beaches. Went off to college, dropped out of grad school (English) to take care of my family, eventually got divorced. Met somebody, got married, but wife discovered she’s polyamorous and I'm trying to cope. I’m a romantic. To me, love should be like _The Princess Bride._ I need to have this with somebody.
With media, I favor humor, adult and other cartoons, fantasy, science fiction, documentary, drama, the occasional action movie, and somehow still get excited about superheroes for reasons that escape me. My sense of humor is pretty dark and geeky, and OMG will I love you if yours matches! I love Archer and Futurama and Criminal Minds and so much more… and I still love The Simpsons, even though it’s a different show than it used to be.
For fun, I like hanging out with friends, playing games like D&D or trivia. Or watching movies and TV together. Having discussions about anything under the sun. We’re geeks, so it’s going to be heavy on science fiction and fantasy and comedy, but hey, anything goes! I also read and play video games when solo. I wish I were more interested in sports, but I’m willing to be taught.
I’m a musician, playing guitar (that covers up about four or five red flags, eh?), bass, keys, some bad vocals, and a few band instruments. I also compose music. But as an introvert, I prefer to record than to play.
Signe
Verseau
Apparence & situation
Ma silhouette est
Quelques kilos en trop
Ma taille est
5' 8 (1.73 m)
Mes yeux sont
Bleus
Mon origine ethnique est
Caucasienne
J'ai des enfants
Oui - parfois chez moi
Je veux des enfants
Non
Ce que j'ai de mieux
Yeux
Art Corporel
Tatouages visibles
Mes cheveux sont
Marrons
J'en ai 1 ou plus
Chat
Prêt(e) à vivre ailleurs
Non
Statut
Mon niveau d'éducation est
Diplôme d'études supérieures
Ma situation professionnelle actuelle est
Je travaille de chez moi
Mon domaine de compétence est
Art / Musique / Littérature
Mon titre de fonction est
-
J'ai gagné cette année
Moins de 14,999 €
Je vis
En colocation
Chez moi
C'est plutôt calme
Je fume
Non
Je bois de l'alcool
Oui - socialement
Personnalité
Au lycée, j'étais un/e
Tête
Socialement, je suis plutôt
Timide, Sympa, Comique
Mes passions et loisirs sont
Religion/Spiritualité, Dîner , Lecture, Art & artisanat, Apprendre, Musique, Télévision, Films, Internet, Jeux, Cuisine, Ordinateurs
Un bon moment pour moi c'est
Sortir avec des amis, Rester à la maison, Regarder un bon film, Lire, Jouer aux jeux vidéos, Télévision, Aller à un concert, Aller au musée
Un premier rendez-vous idéal, ce serait
Anything that lets us get to know each other. I usually prefer a nice dinner, but I'm open to suggestions!
J'ai toujours voulu essayer
Scuba diving.
Mes amis me décrivent comme
Sympa, Cool, Coquin/e, Neuneu
Points de vue sur la vie
Ma religion c'est
Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses
Mon but dans la vie c'est
Happiness and insight. My material needs are modest.
Mon sens de l'humour est plutôt
Intelligent, Sarcastique, Sympa, Neuneu, Obscur/e, Bouffon, Coquin/e
Goûts
A la télévision, je regarde
Dessins animés, Documentaires, Drames, Sitcoms, Programmes instructifs, Films
Quand je vais au cinéma, je regarde toujours
Science-fiction, Comédies, Animation
Quand j'écoute de la musique, ce que je préfère c'est
Rock, Pop, Blues, Jazz, Musique ambientale
Quand je lis, ce que je préfère c'est
Littérature ancienne, Bandes-dessinées / Romans graphiques, Ordinateurs, Fantaisie, Fictions, Histoire, Humour, Programmes instructifs, Musique, Mystères, Nature, Philosophie, Poésie, Satires, Sciences, Science-fiction, Ouvrages techniques, Surnaturel
Mon idée du fun
Being happy with people I love. I have sensory processing issues, so I prefer something quiet and peaceful, but I can be talked into a lot.
Recherchant un/e
Que trouvez-vous attirant?
Bon sens, Etrangeté, Sensibilité, Empathie, Talents, Humour, Délicatesse, Intelligence
Que recherchez-vous?
Somebody sweet, loving, smart, funny, geeky, unapologetically weird and you.
Quel type de relation recherchez-vous?
Vrai‧e ami‧e, Rendez-vous, Relation intime