Emotionally available & eager to please!
MirificMike
Sault Sainte Marie, Michigan | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
First name
Michael
I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
Hello, my name is Mike, and I’m really bad at these introductions, but here goes!
Runner-up for “World’s Sexiest Geek.” Once rescued a box of kittens (and a fireman!) from a burning barn. 5-star chef. OK, I exaggerated a teensy bit. But I am cute, smart, will make you laugh, and can fix your computer; I rescue cats; and I’m a good cook. I’m also a musician, a writer, and a casual gamer. My personality type is Myers-Briggs INFP, and Enneagram 4 (“The Romantic”) – I’m empathetic, emotional, and artistic by nature. Insight and compassion are my highest values. My politics are progressive, and religion Buddhist and pagan.
Well, that’s the blurb version of me; I hope you find the idea of a man who’s witty and emotionally available attractive, and you’re interested enough to want to want to read on further, where I get less polished and more natural.
I’m looking for a friend and lover, somebody with whom we can both feel safe and sexy. Yes, I am emotional, and I make no apologies for that: things have to feel right first. I guess I wish I could be all studly and casual, but I’m all about the love. (But that doesn’t make me vanilla: with somebody I love, I’ll consider anything.) I want a fellow oddball; somebody quirky, neurodivergent. We’ll know each other. We’ll just click. But there has to be that bond of empathy, that caring.
I grew up in a suburb near the beaches. Went off to college, dropped out of grad school (English) to take care of my family, eventually got divorced. Met somebody, got married, but wife discovered she’s polyamorous and I'm trying to cope. I’m a romantic. To me, love should be like _The Princess Bride._ I need to have this with somebody.
With media, I favor humor, adult and other cartoons, fantasy, science fiction, documentary, drama, the occasional action movie, and somehow still get excited about superheroes for reasons that escape me. My sense of humor is pretty dark and geeky, and OMG will I love you if yours matches! I love Archer and Futurama and Criminal Minds and so much more… and I still love The Simpsons, even though it’s a different show than it used to be.
For fun, I like hanging out with friends, playing games like D&D or trivia. Or watching movies and TV together. Having discussions about anything under the sun. We’re geeks, so it’s going to be heavy on science fiction and fantasy and comedy, but hey, anything goes! I also read and play video games when solo. I wish I were more interested in sports, but I’m willing to be taught.
I’m a musician, playing guitar (that covers up about four or five red flags, eh?), bass, keys, some bad vocals, and a few band instruments. I also compose music. But as an introvert, I prefer to record than to play.
Runner-up for “World’s Sexiest Geek.” Once rescued a box of kittens (and a fireman!) from a burning barn. 5-star chef. OK, I exaggerated a teensy bit. But I am cute, smart, will make you laugh, and can fix your computer; I rescue cats; and I’m a good cook. I’m also a musician, a writer, and a casual gamer. My personality type is Myers-Briggs INFP, and Enneagram 4 (“The Romantic”) – I’m empathetic, emotional, and artistic by nature. Insight and compassion are my highest values. My politics are progressive, and religion Buddhist and pagan.
Well, that’s the blurb version of me; I hope you find the idea of a man who’s witty and emotionally available attractive, and you’re interested enough to want to want to read on further, where I get less polished and more natural.
I’m looking for a friend and lover, somebody with whom we can both feel safe and sexy. Yes, I am emotional, and I make no apologies for that: things have to feel right first. I guess I wish I could be all studly and casual, but I’m all about the love. (But that doesn’t make me vanilla: with somebody I love, I’ll consider anything.) I want a fellow oddball; somebody quirky, neurodivergent. We’ll know each other. We’ll just click. But there has to be that bond of empathy, that caring.
I grew up in a suburb near the beaches. Went off to college, dropped out of grad school (English) to take care of my family, eventually got divorced. Met somebody, got married, but wife discovered she’s polyamorous and I'm trying to cope. I’m a romantic. To me, love should be like _The Princess Bride._ I need to have this with somebody.
With media, I favor humor, adult and other cartoons, fantasy, science fiction, documentary, drama, the occasional action movie, and somehow still get excited about superheroes for reasons that escape me. My sense of humor is pretty dark and geeky, and OMG will I love you if yours matches! I love Archer and Futurama and Criminal Minds and so much more… and I still love The Simpsons, even though it’s a different show than it used to be.
For fun, I like hanging out with friends, playing games like D&D or trivia. Or watching movies and TV together. Having discussions about anything under the sun. We’re geeks, so it’s going to be heavy on science fiction and fantasy and comedy, but hey, anything goes! I also read and play video games when solo. I wish I were more interested in sports, but I’m willing to be taught.
I’m a musician, playing guitar (that covers up about four or five red flags, eh?), bass, keys, some bad vocals, and a few band instruments. I also compose music. But as an introvert, I prefer to record than to play.
Sign
Aquarius
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is
5' 8 (1.73 m)
My Eyes Are
Blue
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
I Have Kids
Yes - Sometimes At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Eyes
Body Art
Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Work At Home
My Speciality Is
Art / Music / Literature
My Job Title Is
-
I Make This Much In A Year
Less Than $14,999USD
I Live
With Roomate(s)
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Brain
My Social Behavior Is
Shy, Friendly, Comedic
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Religion / Spirituality, Dining, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Cooking, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, The Movies, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Anything that lets us get to know each other. I usually prefer a nice dinner, but I'm open to suggestions!
I've Always Wanted To Try
Scuba diving.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Cool, Raunchy, Goofy
Views
My Religion Is
Spiritual But Not Religious
My Political Views Are
Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
Happiness and insight. My material needs are modest.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Slapstick, Raunchy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Science Fiction, Comedy, Animation
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Rock, Pop, Blues, Jazz, Ambient
When I Read, I Always Read
Ancient, Comic, Computers, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Humor, Instructional, Music, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Poetry, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, Technical, Supernatural
My Idea Of Fun Is
Being happy with people I love. I have sensory processing issues, so I prefer something quiet and peaceful, but I can be talked into a lot.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Oddities, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
Somebody sweet, loving, smart, funny, geeky, unapologetically weird and you.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate